Frequently Asked Questions ~ Brideberry Dating Club

[/] Ladies Gallery Gifts & Flowers Time to Meet Our Services Questions Payment Info Ðåãèñòðàöèÿ Frequently Asked Questions Why do Ukrainian woman search for foreign husband? First of all, if you will ask, every girl will give you different answer to this question. Some of them are looking for romantic love and believe that their second half can be anywhere in the world. Some of them did not find a good husband in their own country, disappointed by Ukrainian men and looking for someone serious, reliable and loving from another country. In general Ukrainian women seeking stability for her family, they need to be sure in her children’s future in a country that has good values and security for people. Primary goal for them is to find reliable, kind and loyal man to build a strong and happy family with him, and if they didn’t find such a man in Ukraine they are looking abroad. Ukrainian women tend to be devoted adoring wives. In western societies women have an equal status to men, as it should be. Ukrainian women see western men as kind, sensitive, respectful, understanding, compassionate and dependable, and for the most part western men are this way. Open borders and internet are now giving excellent opportunities for them to search for second half from all around the world. Is your agency serious, are the girls real, do women read, write letters themselves? YES, we are a serious dating club, only honest work will bring profit in the future. The scheme of work is as follows: Our clients are only local girls. When the girl comes to our dating club, we check her identity, marital status, passport. Then we place her profile on our site and she waits for her real partner. You send your e-mail to a chosen Ukrainian woman. Our interpreters translate your message into lady’s native language and the manager informs the woman on the phone that a message is waiting for her. If you contact a Ukrainian woman for the first time together with your letter she receives your profile information and photo. When your Ukrainian bride receives your letter — they usually prefer to come to the office to pick their letters up — the woman is able to write a response immediately in our dating club if she prefers, or she may think it over at home and then bring her reply to the club to translate and forward woman’s reply to you. I have seen a few women who I have also seen on other site, why? We do not forbid women to be clients of different marriage and dating agencies in our native city as we can’t deprive them of their right to CHOOSE and have this choice, and thus one girl can be a client of many marriage agencies in our native city. Most of the Ukrainian girls whose profiles are displayed on the web-site mention that they don’t speak English at all. How will they communicate with me when we meet? Yes, we can understand your disappointment, but this is why Ukrainian women register with our dating club: they NEED our services on translation and mail forwarding, and since foreign men pay for the services, women don’t, our services are free for women. You should understand that the majority of the girls who come to our dating club are currently learning English or plan to start learning the language in the nearest future. It is quite often that a girl starts learning English after she meets suitable partner — then motivation for learning a foreign language is stronger. There are, of course, women in our Ukrainian women catalog who know English enough for direct correspondence when you come. Can you give any suggestions on writing a letter to the woman? It is not true that first introduction letter should be short and consist only of minimum most important biographical information. Remember that beautiful lady will get several letters and you should do your best to write the most interesting, warm and inspiring introduction letter. To make a lady feel special, beautiful and desired requires writing a very personal letter full of your undoubted interest in her, warm words and compliments. Tell her as much as you can to make her feel one and only. Sincerity and romantic sentences are very much appreciated and will make you irresistible to her. Try to realize that you are not applying for a job but writing to your potential sole mate that may become the love of your life. Another very important thing is to enclose good photograph of you. Does the agency guarantee confidentiality of correspondence? Yes, absolutely! We guarantee total confidentiality of correspondence. Your letters will not, in any case, be seen by any third parties, except for interpreter if necessary. I’ve got some nice, positive replies. Help! I’m sure this will happen. Now you need to develop the relationship on paper. In our experience, few ladies are creative in their writing. Ask them questions about themselves. What they want in a husband, ask about their family, friends and job. Encourage them to open up about themselves, but don’t pressurize them. If you get several replies and exchange letters, look for a lady who is trying to develop her relationship with you. They should be asking you questions too. Ensure that she sees your picture at an early stage. Why is the first letter (sometimes second letter too) free of charge? The first letter is free of charge, because we don’t want you to risk your money. We give you a chance to find out if the lady you like is interested in you and only then decide to continue corresponding and to pay for our services. How do I pay? You can pay using your credit card (Visa, MasterCard, etc.). Do not be concerned about using your credit card online. If it would be more convenient for you, you can pay by money transfer (WesternUnion, MoneyGram or other system). Contact us for details if you prefer this way of making payment. I’ve heard that ladies are ‘scammers’, just trying to make money out of vulnerable single men, is this true? There are incidences of this, but they’re quite easily spotted. Usually, they involve requests for money. This is often preceded by a response to your initial letter which is overly romantic and playing on your feelings. You see a picture of a beautiful woman, she tells you you’re the man of her dreams, and suddenly you’re not thinking straight. Never send money to someone you haven’t met. I know it sounds obvious, but there are suckers who will. A decent woman is proud, and would never ask a stranger for money. By all means offer assistance once you’ve met and your relationship is developing, but apply the same rules to a lady in the FSU as you would to one in your home country. Can I request services that are not listed on your site? Yes, e-mail us at info@brideberry.com . If you have any question which is not listed here please feel free to ask our manager via e-mail faq@brideberry.com . Accommodation in Odessa Present flowers to her info@brideberry.com © 2005–2006 Brideberry.com