I SEE, I HEAR, I FEEL...

There is an opinion that men love with eyes, women with ears, but it is in fact not right. Women, as well as men, are different. For one what they see is the most important, for others what they hear, for the third - what they feel.

Imagine RAIN. Someone, probably, WILL SEE an autumn landscape and drops on a window pane, someone WILL HEAR the noise of water falling on leaves in this word, and someone WILL FEEL dampness, drops of water on the skin and shiverfrom imagined coldness. If our associations are similar, it is rather easy for us to find common language. But if they essentially differ?

It is better to see once...

People who communicate with the world mostly with the help of their eyes prefer to stand during a conversation opposite to you, watch your mimicry and constantly look in the face. If you look not directly back it seems to them, that you do not listen to them. They love the order and an aesthetics, and they attach special cignificance to the appearance. They spend a lot of time on their appearance and are ready to use uncomfortable things if they are beautiful or extravagant. They are very exacting to themselves and can fly in an inferiority complex if their figure does not correspond to an ideal. It is better not to touch their hands outside of intimate conditions they perceive these touches as familiarity.

The "Seeing" woman is a responsible person. She is an excellent house wife, there is always a perfect order in her home. She prefers to take a dominating position in her relationship with the man and to supervise his each step. Appearance is the main criterion of her choice, she loves with her eyes. If you want to attract her do not appear before her in a disarranged clothes and think carefully about them.

She is capable of wonderful love and passionate sex, but it is necessary to you in relationship with her to show not only the initiative, but also imagination: create intimate atmosphere and make a romantic performance for her.

I feel means I exist!

People learning the world through sensations, aspire to touch everything around. They constantly touch themselves and everything, that is near their hand. At conversation they seldom look in the face - their sight usually looks in the direction of a floor, however it does not mean, that they do not listen to you. To capture your attention, they move closer to you and touch you from time to time, but these touches do not have anything in common with familiarity, nor with sexual advances. They are sincere as well as direct, and sometimes it is perceived as tactlessness. Their manners and movement relaxed, and their clothes at times can amaze you with their inaudequateness and slovenliness. They do not try to create an image and prefer convenience and comfort to external lustre.

From the "feeling" woman it is difficult to expect the order and accuracy, however its disorganization is compensated by ability to settle any conflicts. Despite of her laziness, she is able to do a lot for you and will make it with enthusiasm. The main thing is to not put it as a duty, and to ask it in a kind way, tenderly. In attitudes with the man she does not aspire to leadership, but also won't allow to demand something from her.

In sex she does not have lightning temperament and prefer to have slow, long and pleasurable lovemaking. . She ignores erotic linen and other seductive features, preferring to be naked and natural.

I hear music in dream...

There are people sensitively reacting to sounds. They attach huge significance to intonations of a voice. On the one hand it allows them to feel the slightest nuances in a condition of the interlocutor, but on the other - to create problems and conflicts from nothing. Their thinking is mostly non-standard, and magnificent intuition is combined with uneasiness and suspiciousness. They are closed and timid, avoid the noisy companies and are protected from the roaring world by headphones of their walky. They cannot sleep, when the clock ticks in the room or water drips behind a wall , or cats miews in the street. They understand music very well and quite often play a musical instrument, but they cannot create under the will and seldom become professional musicians.

The "Hearing" woman all consists of paradoxes. She does not aspire to authority, but uneasiness does not allow her to give someone leadership unconditionally. Money are not of big value to her, but natural flexibility and ability to non-standard creative thinking allow her to earn rather good money.

Sex is not a physical need for her, but she wants approval of the man and she can feel the needs of her partner very well, and it makes her the most skilful mistress.

To be liked by her is simple - watch your voice, try not to raise it, avoid sharp sounds, do not turn on the TV loudly. And the main thing is to say tender words as much as possible.

When we are going to live in another country for a long time we try to learn its language. Each person is a whole world with different values and rules. If you want, that it has understood you, - try to speak on the language of its values.